Marriage Preparation
The Newman Center offers a pre-marriage-preparation program for engaged couples. The Marriage Preparation Program requires you to:
1) Complete a FOCCUS Inventory questionnaire, and participate in an individually arranged counseling session to review the results of the inventory.
2) Register for and attend one of the Newman Center’s, Marriage Preparation Workshops.
3) Schedule and attend an individual counseling session with a licensed marriage-family therapist associated with the Newman Center.
Upon completion of these requirements, you will have satisfied the Diocese’s and the Newman Center’s Marriage Preparation requirement and will receive a Certificate of Completion.
Upon completion of these requirements, you will have satisfied the Diocese’s and the Newman Center’s Marriage Preparation requirement and will receive a Certificate of Completion.
The next Workshop is scheduled for February 6, 2010.
FOCCUS Inventory: FOCCUS (Facilitating Open Couple Communication, Understanding and Study) is an inventory designed to provide you and your fiancé with a personalized profile that can be used to help you both learn more about yourselves and your unique relationship, promote discussion, and help you to name and work through issues before marriage. It is not a test, nor is it a predictor of success or failure in marriage. FOCCUS provides feedback on where each partner stands in regard to topic areas important to marriage.
FOCCUS helps each of you to identify how you think and feel about issues as you read and respond to the FOCCUS statements. It also helps your relationship by promoting discussion between the two of you as you discuss what you both think and feel about the topics. This first level of discussion helps to prepare you if more problematic areas need to be discussed with the help of your FOCCUS facilitator.
Using your couple profile report, the facilitator will work with you to look at patterns in your responses, discuss issues, and problem solve where necessary.
STEP #1: Fill-out the FOCCUS Inventory.
Fill out the inventory independently and not as a couple. After you have completed the questionnaire, you can and should discuss the questions and your responses with each other.
STEP #2: Return the FOCCUS Inventory to John Prandini, FOCCUS facilitator at the Newman Center, and call or e-mail to set up an appointment to meet with him to review your personal couple profile. Call 436-3439 or e-mail prandinij@cusfnewman.com for an appointment.
STEP #3: Meet with John Prandini, FOCCUS facilitator, to review your personal couple profile.
STEP #4: Schedule follow-up sessions if needed; and register to attend one of the day-long Marriage Preparation Workshops offered by the Newman Center. Call John Prandini at 436-3439 or e-mail prandinij@cusfnewman.com to register.
Marriage Preparation Workshops:The Newman Center offers one day, Marriage Preparation Workshops, held at the Newman Center, to assist in fulfilling the pre-marriage training requirement of the Diocese of Fresno. The date for the next Marriage Preparation Workshop is February 6, 2010. Workshops begin at 8:00AM and conclude with Mass at 5:00PM. The cost is $200 per couple. This fee includes the Workshop; the FOCCUS Inventory and follow-up counseling session; and a single counseling session with a licensed marriage-family therapist. *If you are marrying at the Newman Center, these services are included as part of the Newman Center’s wedding fee. Due to space limitations, the required completion of the FOCCUS Inventory and its follow-up meeting prior to the Workshop, ADVANCED REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED.
Download PDF Workshop Flier & Registration form
Counseling: A network of licensed marriage and family therapists associated with the Newman Center are used as educators within our Marriage Preparation program and are referral resources when needed. Each couple will participate in one session with a licensed marriage and family therapist as part of their marriage preparation. If for some compelling reason a couple cannot attend the one day workshop, they can see a counselor associated with or approved by the Newman Center for 3-5 sessions. The additional cost is the responsibility of the couple.
Marriage/Relationship Enrichment & Support
Marriage/Relationship Enrichment and Support This ministry provides on-going education and support through classes, enrichment programs, social activities, pastoral counseling, and an annual married couple retreat, to improve and strengthen the relationships of married and engaged couples. A network of licensed marriage and family therapists associated with the Newman Center are also used as educators and referral resources when needed. These groups are open to both married and engage couples preparing for marriage. Check the weekly Sunday Bulletin for details and topics. Child care is usually provided, but check for availability.
Faith, Family & Friends: The Newman Center offers Marriage and Relationship classes as part of our community’s individual and family religious education program Faith, Family & Friends. The adult education portion of FF&F offers a section of Family Life Topics that include Marriage and Relationship Enrichment classes. Go to the Faith, Family & Friends web page to see a schedule of course offerings.
Mastering the Mysteries of Love: The Newman Center is sponsoring a relationship enhancement program for married and engaged couples offered by the Healthy Marriage Coalition of Fresno/Madera County called, “Mastering the Mysteries of Love.” The program consists of six Monday evening sessions, July 13 - August 17, 7-9PM in Cardinal Newman Hall. The program teaches communication skills vital to intimacy and conflict resolution. Cost is $20. Registration forms are at the front desk.
10 Greats Date Nights: The Newman Center sponsors date nights to help married couples have at least one date night per month for 10 months (Sept. – June). Couples are asked to make the commitment of having one date night each month to enrich their marriages, to help improve communication and to make their relationship a priority. The program includes a brief 20 minute video presentation based on the book, “10 Great Dates” by David and Claudia Arp. The meetings begin promptly at 7:00pm with the video presentation, so don’t be late. Free child care is provided from 6:45-9:30pm. Date Night will begin again in September 2010. Pre-registration is required - $20 registration fee.
PDF Registration Form (temporarily disabled link)
Annual Married Couples Retreat: The date for our 2010 Annual Married Couples Retreat is April 30-May2. Reserve the date.
PDF Workshop Flier & Registration form (temporarily disabled link)
Other Marriage Resources
Retrouvaille Retrouvaille is a national organization which offers a weekend program with post-weekend sessions for troubled marriages. The Retrouvaille weekend provides a Catholic spiritual context and the tools to help put your marriage in order again. The main emphasis is on communication between husband and wife. It will give you the opportunity to rediscover each other and examine your lives together in a new and positive way. Through presentations, private reflection, and dialogue, couples whose marriages are seriously troubled and who may be contemplating divorce are invited to reflect on their marriage and on what they can do to save it. For more information, call (800) 470-2230 or go to www.HelpOurMarriage.com
Marriage Encounter Weekend is designed to give married couples the opportunity to examine their lives together...a time to share their feelings, their hopes, disappointments, joys and frustrations...and to do so openly and honestly in a face-to-face, heart-to-heart encounter with the one person they have chosen to live with for the rest of their life. The emphasis of Marriage Encounter is on communication between husband and wife, who spend a weekend together away from the distractions and the tensions of everyday life, to concentrate on each other. It is not a retreat, nor a marriage clinic, nor group sensitivity. It's a unique approach aimed at revitalizing Christian Marriage. Go to www.wwme.org/ for more information and to find ME locations and dates.
Parenting/Family Education and Guidance
The Newman Center offers parenting classes as part of our community Tuesday evening Faith, Family & Friends individual and family religious education program. The classes are presented by Kathleen Dyer, Ph.D., Associate Professor at CSU-Fresno in the Dept. of Child, Family, and Consumer Sciences and others to be announced. Class sessions meet 6:00- 7:30PM in Cardinal Newman Hall. Registration forms for Faith, Family & Friends are available at the reception desk or download PDF Registration form.
Separated & Divorced Support Groups
The Catholic Church has a rich treasury of people, scripture, tradition and pastoral ministry on which to draw to serve those whose marriages end in divorce. We at the Newman Center strive to open this wealth and make known Christ’s abundant love so that all who suffer from separation and divorce might experience healing, reconciliation, and new life. We also recognize that as a separated and divorced person, through your vulnerability, suffering, courage, faithfulness, and patient endurance, you bear witness to Christ and his redeeming grace in the world. You are not mere recipients of the Church’s compassion; you are, as well, ministers of that compassion. Join us in an open and friendly environment for spiritual encouragement, friendship, support, and healing. Contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com
Divorced & Separated – Join us in Cardinal Newman Hall Thursday evenings 6:00-7:30PM. You don’t have to go through this time alone. Find help, discover hope and experience healing in this supportive and encouraging group environment.
Other Resources:
Beginning Experience: A retreat weekend for the Widowed – Separated – Divorced. Help for the heartache of finding yourself alone again - a weekend away for a lifetime of change. For information go to: www.beginningexperience.org.
Annulments
Catholics and others who wish to marry in the Catholic Church but have previous marriages may be required to petition for an annulment of their previous marriage. This petition involves answering questions about one's previous marriage, choosing witnesses who can testify (in writing) about the marriage in question and submitting baptismal, marriage and divorce documents. The process may take anywhere between 6-8 months before a decision is made. Each case is investigated by a canon lawyer of the Diocese of Fresno's Tribunal who also writes the decision for or against the annulment. Once the annulment is granted, a person is usually free to marry in the Church. For more information about the annulment of a previous marriage, please contact the parish office.
Grief Support
Ministering to the bereaved (those suffering the death of a loved one) is an important ministry in the Church. The Grief Support group of the Newman Center offers support through several sessions offered each year. It also hosts an Evening of Remembrance near Christmas when families can gather to remember those who have died through prayer, song and a special candle lighting ceremony. For more information on Grief Support, contact Michele Kilner at 224-9811 or John Prandini at 436-3439.
Men’s Ministries
This ministry provides an opportunity for men to share and discuss common issues in their lives in a supportive group relationship. We discuss spiritual and practical issues related to men and biblical strategies for dealing life’s struggles.
Men’s Tuesday Morning Spirituality Group meets every Tuesday morning at 7:30-8:15AM in the Library after 7AM Mass. This group provides an opportunity for men to share and discuss common issues in light of the Scriptures and Catholic Tradition.
Men’s Spirituality Saturday Breakfast Group is a monthly Saturday morning Men’s Spirituality Breakfast Club that meets on the 2nd Saturday of the months September through May. The program features breakfast, guest speakers, scripture reflection, lively discussion and faith sharing.
Spirit - Law Enforcement Officers Support Group for men seeking spiritual and emotional support with fellow officers. Meetings are Monday evenings, 7-8PM in classroom 5 in the main building. For information, contact Juan at juanmespinoza@comcast.net
Women’s Ministries
This ministry provides the opportunity for women who wish to develop their spirituality, study scripture, and to form friendship bonds to gather with other women for support and encouragement.
Women’s Spirituality & Scripture Study Group
This is a gathering of women who wish to develop their spirituality, study scripture, and to form friendship bonds with other women for support and encouragement. This group meets on Wednesdays, noon – 1:00PM. The group facilitator is Tanya Meneses. For more information contact Tanya at tanyameneses@gmail.com
Elizabeth Ministryis an outreach program to women in the special time of motherhood. Its formation is based on the story of Elizabeth and Mary reaching out and assisting each other during their pregnancies, and on Jesus’ vision of the goodness, beauty, and truth of motherhood and human life. The purpose of this ministry is to affirm, support, encourage and assist woman during their childbearing years. Women gather in groups, sponsor activities and classes that support mothers and foster the positive values of family in church life. Through the participation and peer support of Elizabeth Ministry, women experience greater self-confidence, friendship and support. Contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com .
MOMS (Ministry of Moms Sharing) Moms are invited to gather for support, friendship, and encouragement; Play groups where moms can meet other moms and their children are welcome to come and play are also available. New groups are forming. Contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com .
Pregnancy Support those needing assistance or those interested in providing support to women during their pregnancy, contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com .
Meals for New Moms those needing assistance or those interested in providing support to women during their pregnancy, contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com .
Lydia’s House is an ecumenical women’s group that meets monthly to explore topics in women’s spirituality. Meetings are held on the third Saturday of the month from 9:00-11:00AM in Cardinal Newman Hall, room 103. Contact Mary Carr, 439-3466.
Catholic Singles meets at the Newman Center on a monthly basis for spiritual support and social enjoyment. Besides monthly meetings that host guest speakers on a number of topics, Catholic Singles also invites single persons to join them in a variety of other social outings. The group is open to those who are divorced, widowed or who have never been married, ages 35 and older. Meetings are held on the First Monday of the month, 6:30-8:00PM in Cardinal Newman Hall, room 101. Contact: Vivian Tur 559-355-4528.
Retired and Senior Parishioner Support
The Greatest Generation is open to the more mature members of our parish (seniors) who are invited to enjoy food, fellowship and a variety of social and spiritual activities. For more info, contact Carol Kennedy at 436-3434 and watch the bulletin and web-site for announcements.
Pastoral Counseling – Contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or email at prandinij@csufnewman.com
Spiritual Direction - – Contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or email at prandinij@csufnewman.com
Physical Fitness Groups
Tai Chi Exercise classesare offered in a series of ten week sessions on Thursday evenings 5:45 – 6:45 PM in Cardinal Newman Hall.
Tai Chi has been referred to as “meditation in motion.” This ancient form of martial art employs a series of graceful movements that reduces stress, improves range of motion, posture, muscle strength, and balance.
A series of ten week sessions continue through the year. Classes begin on Thursday, September 17, 2009. Instructor: Bill Titus. Cost: New students - $20; continuing students - $10, for each ten week session.
Adult Religious Education & Faith Formation
Scripture Study
Roman Catholics believe that the Bible— the Word of God— is the primary source of Truth for us. The Old Testament (Hebrew Scriptures) and the New Testament (Christian Scriptures) form one story of how God’s plan of salvation unfolded for the human family.
We are encouraged to pray with and study the Bible so that we can learn more about the origins of our faith and to root ourselves in the Word of God and the community that is gathered by this Word.
The Newman Center offers on-going Scripture studies which explore the meaning and depth of the books of the Bible. As part of our Faith, Family & Friends program we offer a Scripture Study option, in addition to options for Catholic Faith Topics and Family Life Topics. Go to the Faith, Family & Friends link and check out the scheduled topics for Scripture Study. The weekly bulletin will also have information about any Scripture Studies that are being offered in the parish. All are welcome!
Men’s Ministries
This ministry provides an opportunity for men to share and discuss common issues in their lives in a supportive group relationship. We discuss spiritual and practical issues related to men and biblical strategies for dealing life’s struggles.
Men’s Tuesday Morning Spirituality Group meets every Tuesday morning at 7:30-8:15AM in the Library after 7AM Mass. This group provides an opportunity for men to share and discuss common issues in light of the Scriptures and Catholic Tradition.
Men’s Spirituality Saturday Breakfast Group is a monthly Saturday morning Men’s Spirituality Breakfast Club that meets on the 2nd Saturday of the months September through May. The program features breakfast, guest speakers, scripture reflection, lively discussion and faith sharing.
Women’s Ministries
This ministry provides the opportunity for women who wish to develop their spirituality, study scripture, and to form friendship bonds to gather with other women for support and encouragement.
Women’s Spirituality & Scripture Study GroupThis is a gathering of women who wish to develop their spirituality, study scripture, and to form friendship bonds with other women for support and encouragement. This group meets on Wednesdays, noon – 1:00PM. The group facilitator is Tanya Meneses. For more information contact Tanya at tanyameneses@gmail.com
Meals for New Moms those needing assistance or those interested in providing support to women during their pregnancy, contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com .
NCYA Newman Center Young Adults meet twice a month for fellowship, fun, and spiritual growth. If you are between the ages of 22 to 35, and would like to meet other young adults and grow in your faith, please join us! For more information and a list of upcoming activities, pick up a flier by the Campus Ministry bulletin board in the lobby (by the door at the east end of the hallway) or contact Tanya at tanyameneses@gmail.com. Summer plans include community service, monthly Mass, and a beach trip August 1!
RCIA
Are You Thinking About Becoming a Catholic Christian? R.C.I.A. stands for the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults and represents the process by which adults are introduced to the beliefs and practices of the Catholic Church, dialogue with a team of clergy and trained laypersons, and move through the sacraments of initiation—baptism, confirmation and eucharist.
R.C.I.A. begins with Inquiry— the first and very vital part of the program that allows you to bring your questions about the beliefs and traditions of the Catholic Church to a relaxed environment that allows the time that you need to explore your faith within the context of Catholicism.
Is this the Church where God is calling you to belong? To begin on a journey of faith, we are all called to be faithful to God’s time. The Newman Center RCIA program is available to inquirers year-round—there are no specific start and stop dates—just as there is no set schedule by which God calls us to a new beginning. So if you are interested in finding answers to your questions about the Catholic faith, call us any time.
You will be treated as an individual, and will be given time to become acquainted with the Catholic community and the gospel values we attempt to live. The time you spend in Inquiry gives you the opportunity to determine whether you are seriously interested and called to become incorporated into the Catholic community. It’s a time to develop your relationship with God and resolve any questions you might have.
We welcome you to this very special journey of faith and hope that you will see us not as “teachers” but rather as friends who wish to be companions on your journey. In RCIA, we incorporate celebrations, reflection and retreat, prayer experiences and social occasions to build community. As you move beyond Inquiry into the Catechumenate, which is a more focused stage of formation, you will be accompanied by a sponsor and will expand your formation on key tenets of the Catholic Church.
St. Paul Newman Center’s RCIA program is focused on adults who have not been baptized or who have been baptized in another Christian church and wish to explore Catholicism. In some cases, baptized Catholics with little or no religious education may participate in the RCIA program. The Newman Center is uniquely blessed to have initiation programs which are age specific through high school, as well as other adult sacrament preparation programs for Catholics wishing to complete sacramental initiation, including college students.
Contact Arlene Kalchik at 392-7836.
Returning Catholics
Have you thought about coming back home to Church? It’s not the same without you! We welcome the opportunity to talk to you and connect with you through individual and group gatherings. Contact John Prandini anytime at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com .
You are also warmly invited and encouraged to participate in our Faith, Family & Friends individual and family religious education and faith formation program. You will have the opportunity to meet other parishioners within the context of a friendly community evening; pick from three educational options (Scripture Study, Catholic Faith Topics, Family Life Topics); and to discover the Church in a new, welcoming, and personal way. We would like to welcome you personally and provide you with companionship on your journey back home.
Other Adult Education, Faith Formation Programs and Support Groups are located under Family Life Ministry:
(click on each to go to link)
Marriage Preparation - education, workshops, counseling and support for engaged couples;
Marriage Enrichment/Relationship Enhancement – on-going education, programs, social activities, pastoral counseling, and support for married/dating couples, and an annual Married Couple Retreat;
Parenting/Family Education and Guidance for parents and family members;
Separated & Divorced Support Groups for spiritual support and encouragement;
Retired and Senior Parishioner Support through spiritual and social activities;
Men Ministries providing spiritual development, support and direction;
Women’s Ministries providing spiritual development, support and direction;
Grief Support related to the death of a loved one.
Catholic Singles seeking friendship through spiritual, service and social activities;
Pastoral Counseling for individuals and couples in need of guidance and support;
Physical Fitness - Tai Chi classes are offered using graceful movements to reduce stress, improve range of motion, posture, muscle strength, and balance.
Faith, Family & Friends
What is it?
Faith, Family & Friends is an innovative approach to parish wide religious education and faith formation. It offers our children, singles, couples and families the opportunity to work on faith formation together on one community evening.
How does it work?
Families and individuals gather weekly on Tuesday evenings from 6-7:30PM to learn about and grow in their faith. Each gathering begins with a general presentation on the theme of the month which will be connected to our liturgical year calendar (Advent, Lent, Easter, etc.) followed by age appropriate break-out sessions and instruction for pre-school; elementary students (grades 1-6); Jr. High students (grades 7-8); High school; College students; and adults. One time per month, the evening begins with a meal, and the entire group often remains together for a community building activity that relates to some aspect of our Catholic Christian faith. Other times the children will be dismissed to their classes and just the adults will remain for a special program. Music, drama, activities and small group instruction help to create a spiritual formation and religious learning process that is interesting and dynamic.
Who participates in Faith, Family & Friends?
EVERYONE! All ages, singles, couples, families, extended family members, friends, visitors, teenagers, people from other parishes, neighbors, EVERYONE!
Faith, Family & Friends is intended to be shared by individuals and by entire households. The idea is for everyone to learn and share together as a parish family. It will also help members of our entire parish community to become better acquainted with one another and be better prepared to participate in our liturgical celebrations.
Faith, Family & Friends is also designed to provide families with ideas, suggestions, materials and support to enable them to integrate faith into their daily family life.
Goals:
• Facilitate conversations about faith & religious issues among family members
• Continue learning with age appropriate materials
• Help develop family ritual celebrations that foster Catholic identity, tradition & faith
• Encourage family prayer
• Help to reflect on life experiences in light of faith
• Help to enable us to act justly, and to serve those in need in and out of the home.
• Become aware of “moments of meaning and grace” in normal daily life
• Filter experiences through the lens of faith and spirituality
• Become aware of God’s presence in our lives… and respond to it.
• Develop a faith “rapport” with one another
• Connect informal faith experiences with the more formal religious practices of the Church.
• Become intentional about growing in faith
Is it mandatory for parents/guardians to attend with their children?
• Yes, we expect parents to attend with their children. We are asking parents to be full partners with the church in the spiritual development of their children.
• However, we realize there might be situations in which this is not possible—i.e. parents may have to work—in which case a responsible adult who is involved in the child’s life (grandparent or other relative, godparent or family friend) must attend in the parent’s place.
What we believe about families:
• We believe that parents are the primary educators of the faith to their children and we are asking parents to be full partners with the church in the spiritual development of their children.
• We believe that children—adolescents and teens included—need their parents and other adults to be involved in their faith journey, to provide positive role models and encouragement.
• We believe that parents want to know what their children are learning, and believe they want to share in their children’s faith journey.
• We believe that the faith formation of your children is possibly the most important task a parent has in their role as a loving parent. Raising children in the Catholic faith cannot be a separate extra-curricular activity.
What the Church believes about families:
• Families are holy and sacred. “A family is our first community and the most basic way in which the Lord gathers us and acts in the world. The early Church expressed this truth by calling the Christian family a domestic church or church of the home…Your domestic church is not complete by itself, of course. It should be united with and supported by the parishes and other communities within the larger Church” (Follow the Way of Love, p.8)
• Each Christian family is in its own unique way a living image and historical representation of the mystery of Church…They not only receive the love of Christ but become a saving community” (Familiaris Consortio).
• As Christian families, you not only belong to the Church, but your daily life is a true expression of the Church” (Follow the Way of Love, p. 8)
• The family is the original cell of social life…The family is the community in which, from childhood, one can learn moral values, begin to honor God, and make good use of freedom. Family life is an initiation into life in society (CCC 2207)
• Parents are the primary educators of the Faith (GDC 255).
• …all members make up the family, and each can make a unique contribution to creating the basic environment in which a sense of God’s loving presence is awakened and faith in Jesus Christ is confessed, encouraged, and lived” (NDC).
We encourage all individuals with their friends and family members to register for Faith, Family & Friends! We would love to welcome you, your family and friends. Everyone is welcome.
For more information, contact John Prandini, 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com
Link to FFF flyer
Pastoral Care/Outreach
Members of the Newman Center parish are encouraged to become involved in reaching out to the larger community and those in need through various programs and ministries.
Peace & Justice Group: The Newman Center’s Peace and Justice Group meets every other week to discuss, plan, and carry out social justice activities within and outside of our parish community. The group also promotes education and discussion on social justice issues of concern and promotes an understanding of the Catholic Church’s Social teachings. Contact Mary Hetherington at 346-1680 or Bill Simon at 227-6565 for information.
Helping Hands is a ministry which combines people with certain skills with people who are in need. If you or someone you know has a particular need while going through a difficult time, we can assist in specific ways. Whether it is a home-cooked meal, gardening, house-cleaning or some other project, there are parishioners who are able and willing to assist. Contact the parish office for additional information, 436-3434.
The Stewardship Committee is composed of parishioners who explore ways of assisting the needy of our community. We reach out to provide the basic needs of those who are less fortunate through food collection programs, special collections and volunteerism. Contact the parish office for additional information, 436-3434.
S.O.S. (Social Outreach Service) is one of the long standing ministries of the Newman Center It sponsors the Christmas Giving Tree, Operation Stork (clothing, diapers, baby blankets and other needed items for infants) along with other community outreach services. Contact the parish office for additional information, 436-3434.
Support
Marriage and Relationship Enrichment and Support This ministry provides on-going education and support through classes, enrichment programs, social activities, pastoral counseling, and an annual married couple retreat, to improve and strengthen the relationships of married and engaged couples. A network of licensed marriage and family therapists associated with the Newman Center are also used as educators and referral resources when needed. Contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com
Faith, Family & Friends: The Newman Center offers Marriage and Relationship classes as part of our community’s individual and family religious education program Faith, Family & Friends. The adult education portion of FF&F offers a section of Family Life Topics that include Marriage and Relationship Enrichment classes. Go to the Faith, Family & Friends web page to see a schedule of course offerings.
Mastering the Mysteries of Love: The Newman Center is sponsoring a relationship enhancement program for married and engaged couples offered by the Healthy Marriage Coalition of Fresno/Madera County called, “Mastering the Mysteries of Love.” The program consists of six Monday evening sessions, July 13 - August 17, 7-9PM in Cardinal Newman Hall. The program teaches communication skills vital to intimacy and conflict resolution. Cost is $20. Registration forms are at the front desk.
10 Greats Date Nights: The Newman Center sponsors date nights to help married couples have at least one date night per month for 10 months (Sept. – June). Couples are asked to make the commitment of having one date night each month to enrich their marriages, to help improve communication and to make their relationship a priority. The program includes a brief 20 minute video presentation based on the book, “10 Great Dates” by David and Claudia Arp. The meetings begin promptly at 7:00pm with the video presentation, so don’t be late. Free child care is provided from 6:45-9:30pm. Date Night will begin again in September 2010. Pre-registration is required - $20 registration fee.
PDF Registration Form (temporarily disabled link)
Download PDF Registration Form (temporarily disabled link)
Annual Married Couples Retreat: The date for our 2010 Annual Married Couples Retreat is April 30-May2. Reserve the date.
PDF Workshop Flier & Registration form (temporarily disabled link)
Other Marriage Support Resources
Retrouvaille
Retrouvaille is a national organization which offers a weekend program with post-weekend sessions for troubled marriages. The Retrouvaille weekend provides a Catholic spiritual context and the tools to help put your marriage in order again. The main emphasis is on communication between husband and wife. It will give you the opportunity to rediscover each other and examine your lives together in a new and positive way. Through presentations, private reflection, and dialogue, couples whose marriages are seriously troubled and who may be contemplating divorce are invited to reflect on their marriage and on what they can do to save it. For more information, call (800) 470-2230 or go to www.HelpOurMarriage.com
Separated & Divorced Support Groups
The Catholic Church has a rich treasury of people, scripture, tradition and pastoral ministry on which to draw to serve those whose marriages end in divorce. We at the Newman Center strive to open this wealth and make known Christ’s abundant love so that all who suffer from separation and divorce might experience healing, reconciliation, and new life. We also recognize that as a separated and divorced person, through your vulnerability, suffering, courage, faithfulness, and patient endurance, you bear witness to Christ and his redeeming grace in the world. You are not mere recipients of the Church’s compassion; you are, as well, ministers of that compassion. Join us in an open and friendly environment for spiritual encouragement, friendship, support, and healing. Contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com
Divorced Care Support Group: Separated and Divorced individuals are invited to join us on Thursday evenings, 6:00 – 7:30PM in Cardinal Newman Hall, room 105.
Other Resources:
Beginning Experience: A retreat weekend for the Widowed – Separated – Divorced. Help for the heartache of finding yourself alone again - a weekend away for a lifetime of change. For information go to: www.beginningexperience.org.
Grief Support Ministering to the bereaved (those suffering the death of a loved one) is an important ministry in the Church. The Grief Support group of the Newman Center offers support through several sessions offered each year. It also hosts an Evening of Remembrance near Christmas when families can gather to remember those who have died through prayer, song and a special candle lighting ceremony. For more information on Grief Support, contact Michele Kilner at 224-9811 or John Prandini at 436-3439.
Men’s Ministries
Spirit - Law Enforcement Officers Support Group for men seeking spiritual and emotional support with fellow officers. Meetings are Monday evenings, 7-8PM in classroom 5 in the main building. For information, contact Juan at juanmespinoza@comcast.net
Women’s Ministries
Elizabeth Ministry is an outreach program to women in the special time of motherhood. Its formation is based on the story of Elizabeth and Mary reaching out and assisting each other during their pregnancies, and on Jesus’ vision of the goodness, beauty, and truth of motherhood and human life. The purpose of this ministry is to affirm, support, encourage and assist woman during their childbearing years. Women gather in groups, sponsor activities and classes that support mothers and foster the positive values of family in church life. Through the participation and peer support of Elizabeth Ministry, women experience greater self-confidence, friendship and support.
MOMS (Ministry of Moms Sharing) Moms are invited to gather for support, friendship, and encouragement; Play groups where moms can meet other moms and their children are welcome to come and play are also available. New groups are forming. Contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com .
Pregnancy Support those needing assistance or those interested in providing support to women during their pregnancy, contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com .
Meals for New Moms those needing assistance or those interested in providing support to women during their pregnancy, contact John Prandini at 436-3439 or prandinij@csufnewman.com .
NCYA
Newman Center Young Adults meet twice a month for fellowship, fun, and spiritual growth. If you are between the ages of 22 to 35, and would like to meet other young adults and grow in your faith, please join us! For more information and a list of upcoming activities, pick up a flier by the Campus Ministry bulletin board in the lobby (by the door at the east end of the hallway) or contact Tanya at tanyameneses@gmail.com. Summer plans include community service, monthly Mass, and a beach trip August 1!
Catholic Singles meets at the Newman Center on a monthly basis for spiritual support and social enjoyment. Besides monthly meetings that host guest speakers on a number of topics, Catholic Singles also invites single persons to join them in a variety of other social outings. The group is open to those 40 and older who are divorced, widowed or who have never been married Contact: Vivian Tur 559-355-4528.
Retired and Senior Parishioner Support
The Greatest Generation is open to the more mature members of our parish (seniors) who are invited to enjoy food, fellowship and a variety of social and spiritual activities. For more info, contact Carol Kennedy at 436-3434 or carol@csufnewman.com and watch the bulletin and web-site for announcements.
Pastoral Counseling – Contact the office to set up a confidential appointment with our sacramental priest, deacon or other member of our ministerial staff at 436-3434.
Spiritual Direction -– Contact the office to set up a confidential appointment with our sacramental priest, deacon or other member of our ministerial staff at 436-3434.
Sacraments
RCIA
Are You Thinking About Becoming a Catholic Christian? R.C.I.A. stands for the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults and represents the process by which adults are introduced to the beliefs and practices of the Catholic Church, dialogue with a team of clergy and trained laypersons, and move through the sacraments of initiation—baptism, confirmation and eucharist.
R.C.I.A. begins with Inquiry— the first and very vital part of the program that allows you to bring your questions about the beliefs and traditions of the Catholic Church to a relaxed environment that allows the time that you need to explore your faith within the context of Catholicism.
Is this the Church where God is calling you to belong? To begin on a journey of faith, we are all called to be faithful to God’s time. The Newman Center RCIA program is available to inquirers year-round—there are no specific start and stop dates—just as there is no set schedule by which God calls us to a new beginning. So if you are interested in finding answers to your questions about the Catholic faith, call us any time.
You will be treated as an individual, and will be given time to become acquainted with the Catholic community and the gospel values we attempt to live. The time you spend in Inquiry gives you the opportunity to determine whether you are seriously interested and called to become incorporated into the Catholic community. It’s a time to develop your relationship with God and resolve any questions you might have.
We welcome you to this very special journey of faith and hope that you will see us not as “teachers” but rather as friends who wish to be companions on your journey. In RCIA, we incorporate celebrations, reflection and retreat, prayer experiences and social occasions to build community. As you move beyond Inquiry into the Catechumenate, which is a more focused stage of formation, you will be accompanied by a sponsor and will expand your formation on key tenets of the Catholic Church.
St. Paul Newman Center’s RCIA program is focused on adults who have not been baptized or who have been baptized in another Christian church and wish to explore Catholicism. In some cases, baptized Catholics with little or no religious education may participate in the RCIA program. The Newman Center is uniquely blessed to have initiation programs which are age specific through high school, as well as other adult sacrament preparation programs for Catholics wishing to complete sacramental initiation, including college students.
Contact Arlene Kalchik at 292-4244.
Marriage
Marriage in the Catholic Church is a sacred event—a sign of God’s active love within the Christian community. This love is made visible in the Sacrament of Marriage: a man and woman promising to be faithful to each other through life as husband and wife. The expression of this mutual love is a source of joy to the entire Christian community.
Christian marriage is a great adventure, through which you will establish a new family, grow in love with each other, and encounter Christ in your personal and family life. A Catholic wedding emphasizes the sacred nature of marriage—one that involves a life commitment, total fidelity between a man and woman, and an openness to children.
St. Paul, Newman Center parish looks forward to celebrating your love on the day of your wedding. May you find true joy as husband and wife on your wedding day and all the days of your life.
If you are interested in making wedding plans at the Newman Center, please call the parish office at (559) 436-3434 or the Newman Center’s Wedding Coordinator: Mary Hill (323-4600 or 304-8439)
Helpful Marriage Information:
Who can be married at St. Paul Newman Center?
At least one party must be:
• Catholic
• A Registered Member of St. Paul Newman Center parish. This includes any son or daughter of a registered family or a student of CSU, Fresno or Fresno City College.
Couples who belong to another Catholic parish or not registered at the Newman Center, must secure a written letter from their pastor giving permission for them to be married in this parish or they may choose to register as parishioners of St. Paul Newman Center.
In order to celebrate your wedding in a Catholic Church, the following guidelines are helpful to note:
* One person must be baptized in the Catholic Church and still be practicing the Catholic faith.
* This must be the first marriage for both parties (otherwise a church annulment of any previous marriage(s) may be necessary).
* A couple must agree to participate in a pre-marriage workshop or counseling.
Necessary Documents
All paperwork must be submitted to Parish Life Coordinator at time of your meeting with him. The required documents are listed below.
Baptism Certificate
A recent copy of one’s baptism certificate is required for each baptized party. For Catholics, the copy must be dated within the past 6 months. These can be obtained by contacting the church of your baptism.
First Communion and Confirmation Certificates
It is required that each Catholic submit the dates and places where First Communion and Confirmation were received.
If a Catholic has not yet received these sacraments, the priest will discuss possible ways of doing so before or after the wedding date.
Pre-Nuptial Questionnaire
The pre-nuptial questionnaire is completed by each party in the presence of the deacon or priest prior to the wedding day.
Foccus Inventory
This will be given to you at the time of your meeting with either the Wedding Coordinator or the Parish Life Coordinator. It is then returned to the Director of Family Life Ministries.
Civil Marriage License
It is necessary to obtain a civil marriage license prior to a church wedding. Once issued, the license is valid for ninety (90) days. The license should be submitted to the church office at least four weeks before your wedding day. The priest officiates for the State of California as well as for the Catholic Church. The priest and witnesses must sign the license after the wedding.
Annulment Forms
People who have been previously married are not free to marry in the Church without going through the Church process for dealing with previous marriages. Please speak with the priest or deacon about what process might be necessary under these circumstances.
REMINDER: All documents are to be submitted to the parish office at least 4 weeks before the day of your wedding.
Marriage Preparation Options
Both parties must participate in some approved form of pre-marriage instruction well before their scheduled wedding date. This is an opportunity to consider marriage and its many aspects from a Christian perspective. You may fulfill this requirement in one of two ways.
Newman Center’s Marriage Preparation
The Newman center helps engaged couples fulfill the diocesan marriage preparation requirement through a three step process, this includes a one-day, marriage-preparation retreat held at the Newman Center, on selected Saturdays throughout the year. As part of this program, couples are required to complete a FOCCUS Inventory questionnaire and to meet with a Newman Center FOCCUS counselor to review the inventory results prior to attending the one-day retreat. Following completion of the retreat, each couple meets for a single session with a licensed marriage counselor associated with the Newman Center.
OR
Engaged Encounter Weekend
This weekend retreat (Friday evening through Sunday afternoon), available throughout California in many dioceses is scheduled monthly for approximately 30-40 couples. Reservations and a fee are required for participation. The priest, deacon or wedding coordinator can give you more information about this very rewarding weekend. If this option is chosen there is an additional cost.
OR
Pre-Marriage Counseling
If you are unable (for compelling reason) to participate in the Newman Center marriage Preparation Workshop or Engaged Encounter Weekend the priest or deacon may arrange for you to participate in pre-marriage counseling through a licensed counselor. There is a fee associated with this counseling for which you will be responsible.
After completing your pre-marriage instruction, a certificate of completion is required and will be placed in your wedding file.
Sacrament of Reconciliation
As a way of enhancing your own spiritual preparation for marriage, Catholics are invited to celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation (Confession) prior to their wedding. This is a wonderful opportunity to seek the Lord’s blessing upon your married life and to be reconciled to the Church through this special Sacrament.
Clergy
You are free to ask any Catholic priest or deacon to officiate at your wedding. Clergy of other faiths may also participate in the marriage ceremony. Our parish priest or deacon will gladly make arrangements in this regard, if requested.
Wedding Coordinator
The Newman Center employs a wedding coordinator. She will meet with you to discuss your wedding ceremony and to answer any questions you might have about the details of your ceremony. She will schedule a time for your rehearsal (usually the Friday before your wedding) and will be present on the day of your wedding to assist you.
Wedding Coordinator: Mary Hill (559-323-4600) or (559-304-8439)
Director, Family Life Ministry
Will assist you with pre-marriage preparation
Director Family Life Minister: John Prandini (559-436-3439)
Music Coordinator
Music is an important expression of our worship as Christians and should reflect the sacred nature of such worship. Care should be taken in making plans for your wedding music to ensure that it properly expresses the belief of the Christian community about marriage and love.
Traditional hymns, classical pieces of music and even contemporary Christian songs are appropriate for a church wedding. Our organist or music director will help familiarize you with what is available in this regard.
The following types of music are not permitted for church weddings:
• Secular love songs (movie themes, popular rock, top 40 hits, etc.) Please save this type of music for your reception.
• Taped music, CDs and pre-recorded accompaniment.
The Newman Center has an organist, Lynne Rodriguez, who is available for weddings. She is able to accompany singers and help you plan appropriate wedding music. We also welcome outside musicians (other than the organist) to participate in your wedding. Outside musicians must respect the integrity of our sanctuary set-up and abide by our music policy. Please let us know of any plans you might have for outside musicians and/or singers.
The fee for our organist as well as other musicians is negotiated and must be paid at least four weeks before your wedding date.
Organist: Lynne Rodriguez (299-7172)
Piano and keyboard: Sheilagh Luna (277-1384) or
Deborah McHenry (222-4695)
Vocalist: Barbara Felix (355-1149)
Wedding and Rehearsal Times
Couples planning marriage should first contact the parish. This must precede any scheduling of dates and times or plans for reception halls. The usual day for the celebration of marriage is Saturday, although another day of the week may be chosen as long as it does not interfere with scheduled parish activities. Marriages are not permitted on Sunday. The times for Saturday weddings are:
10 AM to 2 PM or 7 PM.
Rehearsals are scheduled on the Friday before the wedding. The Wedding Coordinator will confirm your rehearsal time.
Facilities
We ask that care be taken with the treatment of our facilities. No furniture or decorations may be removed. If you have questions about this, please contact the wedding coordinator prior to your wedding.
The Ceremony
There are two types of wedding ceremonies available to you.
Nuptial Mass
The Nuptial Mass is the normal setting for a marriage between two Catholics who are active in their worship. The Mass may also be a fitting way of celebrating the marriage between a Catholic and another baptized Christian who appreciates the beauty and dignity of the Nuptial Mass. The Nuptial Mass includes readings from the Scripture, the Marriage Rite and the reception of Holy Communion. The time frame for the Nuptial Mass is approximately one hour.
Marriage Rite Outside Mass
In the case of a Catholic and non-Catholic marriage where one or both parties may not be actively worshiping or where one party is non-Christian, the Marriage Rite outside Mass is encouraged. This ceremony includes readings from the Scripture followed by the Marriage Rite. It includes Communion. The time frame for this ceremony is approximately 30 - 35 minutes.
Marriage rite outside mass with communion service is also available.
The use of Scripture (Bible) readings and prayers may not be excluded from any wedding ceremony. While other secular readings/poetry may be incorporated into the ceremony, they cannot replace the use of the Scripture readings and/or prayers. You should speak with the Wedding Coordinator if you have questions about this.
Environment
The sanctuary (altar area) is a sacred place which includes highly symbolic aspects of our Christian worship. The use of decorations (flowers, candles, etc.) may not cover or overshadow the altar or other sanctuary fixtures. During certain Church seasons (Advent/Christmas, Lent/Easter), artwork already present in the sanctuary may not be removed. You are asked to be respectful in your own additions to the altar area. Again, Church furniture may not be moved without the expressed permission of the facilities personnel or priest.
Flowers may be used in the sanctuary and seating area of the Church. These may be live or artificial. We do not permit strewing of flower petals or the use of flower arches. Florists should deliver flowers at a prearranged time. All flowers should be removed from the Church immediately after the ceremony. If you wish to donate your floral arrangements to the Church, please let the Wedding Coordinator know.
Candles are permitted in the sanctuary area only. If wax candles are used, plastic coverings must be placed beneath them on the floors. The use of a Unity Candle is appropriate during the ceremony. This is usually placed on the altar. Again, some covering for the altar should be in place under the candles. Handheld lighted candles are not permitted.
A runner is permitted and should be secured in an appropriate manner. It should be 100 feet in length. Flower arrangements and/or bows may be secured on the aisle seats. The use of netting or anything which might obstruct one’s exit into the center aisle is not permitted. Please speak with our wedding coordinator about the best way to secure bows and the aisle runner.
The use of a guest book prior to the ceremony is not permitted since this may delay the beginning of the ceremony. Your guest book can be made available at the reception.
Photography
The wedding ceremony is a time of sacred worship and commands the respect of all participants. The use of photography, while an important aspect of our celebrations, must not detract from the reverence and meaning of the ceremony. Please observe the following guidelines in the use of photography:
All photographers are to contact facility personnel upon arrival. Photographs may be taken up to 30 minutes before the beginning of the ceremony and up to 30 minutes after the ceremony.
During the ceremony, photographers are not allowed into the altar area. Flash photography may be taken from the side aisles or back of the church only.
The use of a video camera is permitted but must be placed in a permanent position either in the side aisles or chapel area. It must be used without the benefit of artificial lighting.
Photographers are not to employ the Chapel as a ‘studio’ with excessive equipment and/or lighting.
Please share this information with your photographer. The priest and/or Wedding Coordinator will answer any other questions that your photographer might have prior to the ceremony.
Other Considerations
The church is a place of prayer and worship. Respectful behavior is mandatory at all times. Personal attire for both the rehearsal and ceremony is to be appropriate for a place of worship.
Punctuality
Please observe punctuality for the time of the rehearsal and ceremony. The church must consider its own schedule.
Rice
Rice, confetti, bubbles or birdseed are not allowed. These are difficult to clean up, and can cause injury.
Smoking
Smoking is permitted outside only.
Alcohol
Alcohol is not permitted anywhere on the premises. Persons under the influence of alcohol will not be permitted to participate in the ceremony and may be asked to leave the Church premises.
Gum
Gum, food and drinks are not permitted in the Chapel area. Their use is limited to the cafeteria or outside. Please use trash receptacles to dispose of gum properly before the ceremony.
Clean-up
All parties are asked to be responsible for cleaning up after themselves. Please designate persons to gather up personal belongings and wedding items after the ceremony. We are not responsible for lost articles.
St. Paul Newman Center Church reserves the right to exclude someone from participating in a wedding for reasons of non-cooperation with these guidelines.
Use of church facilities and fees
Because of the busy schedule of the parish, we ask that you honor the established time frame for conducting your rehearsal and wedding.
One hour is allotted for a wedding rehearsal. The time frame for your rehearsal will be set by the wedding coordinator. All members of the wedding party should be punctual in this regard.
Our facilities personnel will be available for a period up to five hours on the day of your wedding. They will open the Chapel two hours prior to the time of your wedding and will remain through your wedding and allotted time for photographs.
The fees for these five hours of facilities personnel are included in the general fees for your wedding. All fees are payable four (4) weeks before your wedding date.
Total Fees: $700.00 which include:
Chapel wedding: $550.00 (this fee includes the use of the chapel for the rehearsal and wedding, use of the bridal room , and the marriage preparation process including the FOCCUS inventory, workshop and counseling, and stipend for priest or deacon).
Wedding Coordinator: $150.00
Organist/musicians: by arrangement who arrange their own fees.
Reception
The Newman Center has adequate facilities available for wedding receptions for up to, but not exceeding 240 people.
Contact Information
Parish Life Coordinator:
Father Dave Norris 436-3434
Deacon John Supino 436-3436
Marriage Preparation:
John Prandini 436-3439
Director of Family Life Ministry
Engaged Encounter 265-3365
www.engagedencounter.org
Organist:
Lynne Rodriguez 299-7172
Wedding Coordinator:
Mary Hill 323-4600 or 304-8439
If you are interested in making wedding plans at the Newman Center , please call the parish office at (559) 436-3434
Marriage Related Ministries – Links to
Marriage Preparation: The Newman Center offers a pre-marriage-preparation program for engaged couples. The Marriage Preparation Program requires you to:
1) Complete a FOCCUS Inventory questionnaire, and participate in an individually arranged counseling session to review the results of the inventory.
2) Register for and attend one of the Newman Center’s, Marriage Preparation Workshops.
3) Schedule and attend an individual counseling session with a licensed marriage-family therapist associated with the Newman Center.
Upon completion of these requirements, you will have satisfied the Diocese’s and the Newman Center’s Marriage Preparation requirement and will receive a Certificate of Completion.
The next Workshop is scheduled for August 15, 2009.
FOCCUS Inventory: FOCCUS (Facilitating Open Couple Communication, Understanding and Study) is an inventory designed to provide you and your fiancé with a personalized profile that can be used to help you both learn more about yourselves and your unique relationship, promote discussion, and help you to name and work through issues before marriage. It is not a test, nor is it a predictor of success or failure in marriage. FOCCUS provides feedback on where each partner stands in regard to topic areas important to marriage.
FOCCUS helps each of you to identify how you think and feel about issues as you read and respond to the FOCCUS statements. It also helps your relationship by promoting discussion between the two of you as you discuss what you both think and feel about the topics. This first level of discussion helps to prepare you if more problematic areas need to be discussed with the help of your FOCCUS facilitator.
Using your couple profile report, the facilitator will work with you to look at patterns in your responses, discuss issues, and problem solve where necessary.
STEP #1: Fill-out the FOCCUS Inventory.
Fill out the inventory independently and not as a couple. After you have completed the questionnaire, you can and should discuss the questions and your responses with each other.
STEP #2: Return the FOCCUS Inventory to John Prandini, FOCCUS facilitator at the Newman Center, and call or e-mail to set up an appointment to meet with him to review your personal couple profile. Call 436-3439 or e-mail prandinij@cusfnewman.com for an appointment.
STEP #3: Meet with John Prandini, FOCCUS facilitator, to review your personal couple profile.
STEP #4: Schedule follow-up sessions if needed; and register to attend one of the day-long Marriage Preparation Workshops offered by the Newman Center. Call John Prandini at 436-3439 or e-mail prandinij@cusfnewman.com to register.
Marriage Preparation Workshops: The Newman Center offers one day, Marriage Preparation Workshops, held at the Newman Center, to assist in fulfilling the pre-marriage training requirement of the Diocese of Fresno. The date for the next Marriage Preparation Workshop is August 15, 2009. Workshops begin at 8:00AM and conclude with Mass at 5:00PM. The cost is $200 per couple. This fee includes the Workshop; the FOCCUS Inventory and follow-up counseling session; and a single counseling session with a licensed marriage-family therapist. *If you are marrying at the Newman Center, these services are included as part of the Newman Center’s wedding fee. Due to space limitations, the required completion of the FOCCUS Inventory and its follow-up meeting prior to the Workshop, ADVANCED REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED.
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Counseling: A network of licensed marriage and family therapists associated with the Newman Center are used as educators within our Marriage Preparation program and are referral resources when needed. Each couple will participate in one session with a licensed marriage and family therapist as part of their marriage preparation. If for some compelling reason a couple cannot attend the one day workshop, they can see a counselor associated with or approved by the Newman Center for 3-5 sessions. The additional cost is the responsibility of the couple.
Marriage/ Relationship Enrichment and Support
This ministry provides on-going education and support through classes, enrichment programs, social activities, pastoral counseling, and an annual married couple retreat, to improve and strengthen the relationships of married and engaged couples. A network of licensed marriage and family therapists associated with the Newman Center are also used as educators and referral resources when needed. These groups are open to both married and engage couples preparing for marriage. Check the weekly Sunday Bulletin for details and topics. Child care is usually provided, but check for availability.
Faith, Family & Friends: The Newman Center offers Marriage and Relationship classes as part of our community’s individual and family religious education program Faith, Family & Friends. The adult education portion of FF&F offers a section of Family Life Topics that include Marriage and Relationship Enrichment classes. Go to the Faith, Family & Friends web page to see a schedule of course offerings.
Mastering the Mysteries of Love: The Newman Center is sponsoring a relationship enhancement program for married and engaged couples offered by the Healthy Marriage Coalition of Fresno/Madera County called, “Mastering the Mysteries of Love.” The program consists of six Monday evening sessions, July 13 - August 17, 7-9PM in Cardinal Newman Hall. The program teaches communication skills vital to intimacy and conflict resolution. Cost is $20. Registration forms are at the front desk.
10 Greats Date Nights: The Newman Center sponsors date nights to help married couples have at least one date night per month for 10 months (Sept. – June). Couples are asked to make the commitment of having one date night each month to enrich their marriages, to help improve communication and to make their relationship a priority. The program includes a brief 20 minute video presentation based on the book, “10 Great Dates” by David and Claudia Arp. The meetings begin promptly at 7:00pm with the video presentation, so don’t be late. Free child care is provided from 6:45-9:30pm. Date Night will begin again in September 2010. Pre-registration is required - $20 registration fee.
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Annual Married Couples Retreat: The date for our 2010 Annual Married Couples Retreat is April 30-May2. Reserve the date.
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